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The
Monarchy
The King, Queen and
the Royal Family are genuinely respected by the Thais. Most homes and
businesses, have one or more photographs of the King or the royal family
prominently displayed. Showing any form of disrespect to the Royal
Family will not be appreciated by the Thais and could cause you serious
problems. If you attend a cinema during your stay, when the portrait of
the King is shown on the screen during the national anthem you are
expected to rise and remain standing for the duration.
Social Customs
Thailand is known as
the "Land of Smiles", and for its tolerance and hospitality. The simple
rule is that if you smile people will like you. A smile is an easy way
to say ‘thank you" and can also be used to ‘excuse yourself’ for small
inconveniences. A smile is the proper response to acknowledge the wai or
greetings of small children, and with hotel and restaurant staff. Most
of us were raised with the "Golden Rule" and that will work for you as
well in Thailand as it does at home. Nevertheless, we will provide you
with a short list of things that you should know to help you overcome
any ‘culture shock’ you may encounter.
1.
If you are invited into a Thai home,
you are expected to remove your footwear before entering the door.
2.
It is considered disrespectful for
anyone to put his feet on the table while sitting. When seated make sure
your feet are not pointed at anyone as this is offensive to Thais.
3.
Thais regard the head as the highest
(purest) part of the body, so refrain from touching or patting the head
in a friendly gesture because it is considered impolite.
4.
It is not proper to lose one’s
temper or show exasperation during a misunderstanding. "Jai yen", or a
"cool heart" the Thais believe will solve the problem.
Visiting a temple
Is one of the more
interesting cultural activities for visitors during their stay in
Thailand. Visitors are welcome and discreet photographs may be taken.
Shoes must be taken off before entering a temple, wearing shorts or
other revealing clothing is frowned upon.
Monks are the most important people in Thai society and must be treated
with respect at all times. A monk’s vow of chastity prohibits him from
touching or being touched by a woman. Women are usually advised to smile
and slightly bow when encountering a monk and maintain enough distance
to prevent any contact with the monk or his robes.
Temple fairs are held during the cool season (November through early
March) to raise money for temple maintenance. They are great fun. There
is a carnival atmosphere lots of good food and a chance to see normal
Thai people enjoying themselves.
If you get up early
(sunrise) for a walk, you are likely to encounter monks making their
rounds for offering of food. Monks carrying a bowl will be approached by
Thais (usually women) who will offer food to the monks (merit making).
Thailand is a Buddhist country and this ritual can be seen every day all
over the country.
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